Great help for Ernest T, but not for the OP. Just like the OP, my 4100/4200 has the same issue, the HU starts with the camera grid lines showing, and I can't get off of the screen. My BU camera does work, putting the truck into reverse and my camera works just fine, however as soon as you take it out of reverse the screen goes back to the Grid lines screen, the home button is not on, (all the other buttons are lit) and even the reset button does not get me past this grid lines screen.
Any help for us?