That connector will get you a few wires that you'll need but you have some wires wrong. From everything I could find in the ESI you will either need to tap into the VSS out under the hood where it plugs into the PCM or get a pulse generator. The PCM is located on the left side of the engine near the coolant overflow resevoir. Personally I would use the plug on the radio and get your positive 12v, your ground, your acc wire and your illumination wire from there (instrument panel lamp supply voltage). Your rear view mirror contains the back up wire you need.
for the 12V+ use the radio wire
for the ground use the radio wire
for the ill wire use the radio wire (marked instrument panel lamp supply)
for the acc use the radio wire
for the reverse wire use the one off the rear view mirror (backup lamp supply voltage)
and for your VSS you have to go to your PCM not 100% sure if you want the high or low signal though.



