for any one who want to do a d3 bypass without moving the mute wire, if you have any spare dei parts, the wire used for the antenna plug on the alarm syatems, on the black plug(the windshield side of the antenna plug) remove one of those ping, and they fit in perfectly into the d3 rca harness.

good to know, I've situations where others have broken the pin and have had difficulty finding a new pin, Thanks