Is there a way to do this? I hate how every time i plug in my iphone it automaticly starts playing a random track.

This is so infuriating! Unless the A/V source is turned off (because I disconnected my phone before turning off the radio), I don't want it to switch to the iPod!

There's no way around that yet, and we don't really have access to the section of the software that controls that, so it will probably be a while (if ever).