hi everyone i went to my buddy who installs these things for a living and before i went there my bluetooth worked had an echo but worked when i got my car back it no longer worked when on the navi screen in the top right corner where it shows the bluetooth it has an x through it and says updating underneath it should i do the update for the unit again and if you guys think so where do i get it i have no clue would love the help thanks in advance

The 'updating' below the BT icon is not related to the BT. It is for XM Nav traffic. If you have an XM Nav traffic unit installed, but not subscribed to the service, it will show 'updating'.

Have you tried to pair your phone again? I am guessing that the BT update deleted any phone that was previously paired.