I managed to get them hooked upped on the bench and working(almost).
Only problem was that the CXB9118 remote did not seem to work when the nav screen was showing. Could not even get by the opening nav screen message which required pressing the remote OK button. Nothing happened.
Anyway after trying resets and anything else I notice she had sent a box with sealed CNDV-40MT disks. Not reading the box ahead of time and just thinking this was an upgrade for the system I took out the CNDV-20 Disk from the AVIC90DVD and put in disk1 of the CNDV-40MT set. The screen said something like upgrading do not turn off the power and after 5 minutes it said finished. I then removed the 12 volts from the system and reattached it and when it booted up it said something like wrong disk insert the correct disk. Retried a few times same result. Try resettings both units, no good. Reinserted the original CNDV-20 disk hoping it would go back to the old firmware but did not. Again reset all and tried loading the CNDV-20 original disk but no good. Can't get even the opening nav screen and it won't even play a DVD movie disk like it use to before my stupid mistake of loading the CNDV-40MT disk (which I now see is for touchscreen systems only).
So any way I can get the unit back to using the CNDV-20 disk.
Really would appreciate some help here.
TIA
Slowbyte