I have a Z3 and i am trying to bypass were i can watch video while driving. I have the parking brake grounded. I was told that as soon as the Z3 starts booting to turn your parking lights on and off about 2 to 3 times. I do not have the connector #2 harness. So how can i bypass?

You can only bypass the Z3 by grounding the correct pin in connector 2.

http://www.sminntech.com/z1flash.html#newbypass

Flashing will NOT work for a Z3.

I don't know if I just got a brand new design or what... but my connector 1 has all 4 of those pins with wires in them. The link you've supplied is for a Z1 and says for 06/07 so mines an 08, which wire other than the Ebrake wire do I ground?

There are two connectors. Just follow the instructions he linked

You didn't read what I said. I even put a picture showing my two connectors. My connector does not have any open pin locations at all. My connector does not look like the one in his picture.

Let me rephrase...There are two white connectors besides the main black one. You are missing one. Get it. Then follow the instructions

Ahah, thank you very much... I feel like a tard now.