there are 2 wires coming from the stock wiring harness (White) and an (white/orange) does anyone know what wire does what. I am trying to locate my dimmer wire and my speed wire. Are either of these wires those ones?

I would guess the white/orange one would be the dimmer wire.

Test it.

Take a multimeter, set it to DCV and check what the voltage is when your headlights are off and when the are on.

When your lights are off, you should get a reading of 0 V. When they are switched on, you should get ~12V.

If that doesnt happen with the white/orange wire, check the white wire using the same way.

I will definately give that a try. Any idea of where i might located the speed control wire?