wheres the vss? also is there somewhere i can connect the reverse gear signal to? thnx

Don't have access to my tech stuff right now, but try his for vss. In one of the harnesses behind the radio, there should be a gray/black wire. That should be your vss. It won't be in the same harness where you're speaker wires and power connectors are. It should be in the large cube looking plug. as for reverse I can't really say at the moment.

i see 2 grey and black wires

o and no need for the reverse signal

One of those is going to be a speaker wire and the other will be your vss then. Like I said the one in the cube looking harness will be vss and the one in the harness with the power wires is going to be a speaker lead.

i have 3 diff harness cubes both of the grey/black wires are on the same block

Well then the only thing I can say is to grab a multi meter and test them.

scared ud say that but thnx for the info and time