For a non techno whatever feeling pretty proud of myself.
I read up on the mod from Ducatiboy and did the parking brake mod this am. I "borrowed" some wiring from a old pc in the attic for the pin to go in the connector. Found the light green wire and joined then grounded them. The first time I pulled it out and looked I had no idea how small that little wire was. Looked at radio shack for a connector to get the piece from and then remembered the old PC in the attic.
Thanks for the help Ducatiboy. I don't need to watch dvd's while driving but after flying a helicopter all day feel qualified to mess with the nav enroute.
I am glad I made the decision to have the local shop do the install however. There are a lota wires back there with the Ipod, Bluetooth, and Sirius hooked up.