Alright...Ive searched for ALONG time, and read so much about changing this and that on bypassing stuff to get playback while driving. All im asking for is links to where I can learn how to get into the files I need, an exact how to on how to do this. I haven't touched this radio in months so its been awhile.

You have to be more specific on what you want. The bypass instructions are stickies at the front of this section

my first question is I didn't ground the parking wire so im wondering which one it is, so when I take it apart again. Im sure there was a label, but I was in a hurry and didn't pay attention. My second question is the speed bypass. I have no clue on how to get it into the mode to where I can fix the speed limit to where I can watch while driving. I appreciate the help.

my first question is I didn't ground the parking wire so im wondering which one it is, so when I take it apart again. Im sure there was a label, but I was in a hurry and didn't pay attention. My second question is the speed bypass. I have no clue on how to get it into the mode to where I can fix the speed limit to where I can watch while driving. I appreciate the help.

You need to read the sticky posts on Bypasse, all of your questions are answered in there.

If you can't find the stickies and the FAQs on this site, you may not want to be trying to hack/mod your unit.