i think my problem why my btb200 is not working is because i believe im missing an ip bus cord... the way te btb200 shows the units should be hooked up is the output of the xm tuner should go to input of d3, the input of the xmtuner should go to the output of the btb200 and the btb200 ip bus input should got back into a plug on the D3 labeled EXT... is this correct?

because i do not have a ip bus cable to go from the input of the btb200 with a EXT cord on the other end going into the D3

You don't need a cable back to the D3 from the end of the chain

then im not undertstanding why my btb200 goes into bluetooth menu but jus says "no connection" and you have no where where you can press anything no menu buttons what so ever

Press the physical menu button, there are not buttons on the screen until you "pair" a phone with the unit. Once you connect the phone you need to register it if you want it to auto connect when you get in/out of the car.

Ya, hit the source button til it says BT-Tel, then hit the hard menu button above the volume knob, then the function button on the touchscreen.

yeah i figured it out too bad my phone wont auto connect or transfer phone book

In order to auto connect I had to register my phone after pairing it.