Since you were all nice enough to reply... 
I decided on the Z2 and the installation was today... it isn't quite finished because the bluetooth unit didn't get to the shop on time, so tomorrow the installer will finish up.
A few things...
So far, I'm impressed with the shop that has done the install... there was no dash kit for my car available and what they built for me is amazing. He basically took apart my OEM nav system and made a face plate that makes the whole thing look OEM (other than the words "pioneer" at the top). He did an AWESOME job.
He's confident he can do the bypass. I'm not so sure after what I've read here, but he's definitely a wiz at this stuff. He knows what he's doing.
He didn't have a harness to interface with my Bose amp (OEM), but he rewired the car and did away with the amp. I'm amazed at how good it sounds. He got all 9 bose speakers working very nicely. No, it's not the kind of system that will boom boom boom down the road, but it's loud and clean.
He also tapped into my OEM reverse camera, and he's going to tap into my OEM microphone for the navigation and bluetooth.
I really dig that navigation software (especially in comparison to what the OEM nav system ran on). I'm working my way around learning it and it's fairly easy to understand (but I'm also a geek).
The iPod UI leaves a little to be desired with it's speed (husband also has an alpine "full speed" ipod connection in his car, so I'm a bit spoiled). It's not horrible, but it would be nice to have an easier way to find an artist, song or album in a long list. We have 28 gigs worth of music on our iPods. What I'll end up doing is making some smart playlists and favorites playlists to make finding stuff a bit less time consuming.
Mind you, I LOVE having the iPod hookup at all (since my stupid car didn't offer it, not even an aux input - grrr), and I love that the info is displayed on the screen. I love being able to control the iPod... random, repeat, pause, skip track... very very cool. It will be the primary way I listen to music in the car.
XM with live traffic rocks... and I can't wait to REALLY try it out.
Tomorrow the installer with finish up the bluetooth install, get my steering wheel controls working (there was a "glitch" with that today) and then tomorrow night, if all goes well, I'll have an iPhone to try out with this baby too and see how THAT goes.
I'll post photos soon...