FYI I pushed ADS to engage the engineer who wrote the firmware.
He said that no matter what they do, they will always dispaly the "No Paired Phones Found" dialog when Bluetooth is activated on the headunit IF no phones are paired to SYNC (doesnt matter about the internal Pioneer headunit having any or not).
The only two choices are
1. Leave a cheapo piece of crap phone in your glove box hooked up to a constant USB charger that is paired to SYNC. No service needed,
etc. iPod, whatever...
2. Disconnect the SYNC module
I chose #2. It's quick/easy to disconnect and reconnect. Open the passenger door, pry that little panel off where the vent is, so you can see the "A" pillar. You'll see the SYNC module right in front of your face there. It's got a large black connector with the gray switch bar on it (like the one behind the dash for the HVAC stuff). You push the center of it down, there is a black push button, then pull the gray bar over.
You may find it easier to open the right side and the left side by simply pulling back the cover where the fuse box is in the kick panel.
Then you can see clearly through and use one hand per side.
It takes 5 minutes. No more pop-ups. No more SYNC. Re-connect later if you want...