I have the same issue with greyed-out BT settings as many others. I have tried a lot of things like flashing different firmware versions of the BT module, erasing its stored data and verifying that the module itself is working fine via supertestmode. My final conclusion is that not the module is faulty but the pioneer software that controls it. I am pretty sure that it could be fixed by replacing the files inside the folder USER\RW\SETUP\BT with the ones from a working unit.
Does somebody have a backup copy of his unit available and could provide these files (esp. BTUNIT.DAT)? Or would somebody be so kind to copy them via supertestmode?
Just put the attached file in the root of an SD-Card, navigate to \USER\RW\SETUP, mark BT for copy, navigate to \SD and select paste.