in regards to the bluetooth, to gruvncbn, waiting 10-15 seconds for the music to kick in is a LONG time, my music usually kicks in 1-2 seconds after the call, BUT sometimes gets stuck and waits 30-60 seconds.
also, my unit is not bypassed, and watching movies of SD works perfect while parked, but the ipod won't play them and i double checked the rca wires, they are connected right.
I don't think it takes that long to come back, to tell you the truth it plays as soon as it hangs up. Although every once in a while it will take about 2-3 secs or just long enough for me to look down at head unit. I don't pay attention to it as much as before when I had the master volume turned up. Seems like it needs to process the audio TTS and prompts and when you mute it or lower it down all the way it doesn't use the system resources as much.
As for you iPod problem here is a dumb question... but do you have the all three RCAs hooked up to the USB/iPod cable and are they hooked up in the correct order, meaning Yellow to Yellow, Red to Red and White to White? I am just trying to trouble shoot your problem. Lastly under A/V settings do you have Video 1 set to iPod?
oh and btw... my F90 doesn't have the VSS wire connected and it is dead on turn for turn, even the speed is correct to the speed off my speedometer, well to 1-2 mph at least.
I wonder if you give it a hard reset will help yours out... the only thing is that all your setting will be wiped.