Thanks RonS,
So i tried unplugging the negative battery terminal for a few and it seemed to have the same result after rebooting. connection grey out, and not able to pair from my phone.
so just for the heck of it i clicked on the registration button and let it scan for nearby devices. I made sure BT settings on the the phone allowed other devices to find it.
The unit found my phone, and when i clicked on it it sent my phone a registration msg asking for the pin, i entered the pin, it successfully paired.
So now i can play music and take calls from the phone on my X940bt. I don'