cycomiko

I am a newb, and stupid I guess. I have searched the forum high and low for the answer to this question, and found nothing. I have an avic-f90bt with an ipod connected thru the supplied connection (cd-iu230v) and I want to connect a pioneer inno through the ip-bus, so I bought a connection which is sorta like a cd-rb10, but instead of rca's it has a headphone jack which is perfect for the inno dock. The problem is all selections are greyed out in the inputs, exect for fm/am/ipod. I have tryed the reset button numerous times and even unplugged all power for 10 minutes. Still nothing. I did