You didn't read what I said. I even put a picture showing my two connectors. My connector does not have any open pin locations at all. My connector does not look like the one in his picture.
I don't know if I just got a brand new design or what... but my connector 1 has all 4 of those pins with wires in them. The link you've supplied is for a Z1 and says for 06/07 so mines an 08, which wire other than the Ebrake wire do I ground?