FIX FOUND! I finally got my Thunderbolt to connect to my Z1 again. Not sure how long it will last, I will repost if anything changes. Settings>applications>manage applications>at the top "all">facebook for HTC sense>force stop-ok>clear data. Then settings>wireless & networks>bluetooth settings>long touch device>unpair. Go thru the pairing process all over again, I used pin "0000".
I am not a facebook subscriber nor user, so the changes I made dont affect the app. Not sure what it will do for others. Post if it works for you.