I want to thank all of the contributers to this board. And Pioneer can suck it, they need to take a hard look at their tech support if they're going to release products that have problems like this one.
My problem, specifically, was that the system would boot, show the splash screen, and then shut down after 20 seconds. The reason why this issue is so damning is that if you boot into testmode, or the diagnostic mode (up,up,down, menu, left right I think), the thing still crashes in 20-40 seconds.
As someone else on this forum mentioned, you can seemingly get the update from pioneer to run without the crash occuring. Afterwards, the system still does not work, but it seems to be stabalized somewhat. It boots, and locks up on the splash screen. At least it did on the second time for me...It should be noted that it still crashed in diagnostic a couple of times...I had to make 2 attempts at this. Be careful of writing anything while it is unstable, you're asking for troulbe if you do that.
In short, I installed the update, then did this, steps 1-15: http://avic411.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=33&t=25424&p=173551&hilit=+BOOT+AVIC+IN+TEST+MODE#p173551
Again, I am, very grateful to the posters on this forum. Pioneer, wanted me to remove it, and ship it to cali...They spent most of the time talking to me on the various ways they void the warranty...I'll not be buying from them again.