if I hook the reds like normal Pac Audio Red to Radio Red and then add another red from the fuse panel that is also switched it does not reboot and it still has the delayed shut off.
So what would this hurt?
as long as it is tapped into a ACC circuit in the fuse box and that circuit can supply the extra power for what you attach to it (which shouldn't be a problem since it doesn't really require too much power) it really shouldn't give you any trouble.
Also the relay you mention I assume is the one to get rid of the popping sound from the subs like what I get. You should not need any relay if your using the PAC C2R-FRD1 harness. The only reason I get the pop is because of the other amp I'm using.
the point of the relay is not to get rid of the amp popping, the ACC (red wire) output of the module on the harness can only output a very low amount of current, and some radio's need more than the module can output to turn on, the relay is to keep from over powering the module and burning it up (originally the modules did not come with a relay and they where recalled because they usually wouldn't last more than three or four days, and they decided that it was cheaper and easier to just add a relay instead of redesigning the modules)
the reason there is a pop (which the module should take care of) is because aftermarket radios and amps use a 12v signal to turn them on, and the factory ford systems use a 6v turn on signal, with most ford that do not use a module, you need to place a resistor (about 1450-1800 ohms) inline with the amp turn on wire to reduce the voltage and get rid of the pop, if you are still getting a pop i would try to add a resistor inline only with the factory wire, if you put it inline with both turn on wires then the aftermarket amp you have wont get enough voltage and will not turn on.