no everything else works, I can get and make calls if dialed, they come thru the HU so mic is fine. I am actually out there now just took dash out and hu is next, gonna check the grounds and pin integrity if all checks out large hammer? m-80 or 10
good thing I stopped at dunkin dognuts and got 6 super large with three shots esssssspressso each 
helps me keep my hands from shhhhakking.
will let you all know if there is a hu avail for spare parts later this afternoon.
Joe
OK, just to clarify your VR issue (separate from the bypass). You find BT calling quality fine (or at least acceptible), so the mic is working. But the HU doesn't recognize voice commands. First, there are basically three categories of VR commands:
1. System commands like "Changes source to FM". "Next song". These are fixed phrases that are build-in
2. Hands-free dialing commands like "call Mrs bigjoe". These rely on data from your phone's Contacts (which needs to be sucessfully downloaded over BT from the phone).
3. iPod commands. Many of these are dependent on transfering song/album/artist info from your wired (USB/iPod) iPhone or iPod. These require that the VR catalog is built and correct. Also requires a compatible iPod/iPhone and the correct cable. I also found updating my iTouch made it work better (faster cataloging).
So to diagnose your problem, we need to know which of these functions are failing. Only try VR commands when in the Map Screen or in an AV operation screen (Like iPod).
#1 is easy to test. "Change Source to FM" or whatever
#2 requires that your contacts have transfered. To verify, go to Phone Menu. Is Contacts greyed? If it is, that's your problem. If not, press Contracts. It should show you the list of contacts. Go to the NAV map screen, press VOICE & say call <someone>. Does that work?
#3 iPod catalogs get clobbered easily on my unit. To test try "Play the album <whatever you got>. If it presets you with a list of albums, the AVIC recognized the command, but didn't find the album name in your iPod VR catalog. I'm not sure the best way to force the catalog to get rebuilt. You might try resetting your AVIC unit. Then make sure VR cataloging is turned on in the AV system Settings menu.
Hope this helps sort out the problem. What, no Starbucks?