Thanks!
So I tried that and thought it worked, but on further testing, no luck, So I did some playing. Here is what I discovered...
First...
I edited the database and put in my home number in a bunch of different formats (dashes, parenthesis, no leading '1', etc).
Then...
When I called my cell phone from my home phone, the number recognized was with no leading '1'. and i got caller ID on that. But when I tried from my wife's cell phone, no luck. The numbers that came in on the received call list were my home number with no leading '1', and then my wife's cell with a leading