ok 2 things then if i get a new drive and have it unlocked how do i keep it unlocked ???
Get a new drive? You would most likely need an automotive drive from pioneer, we tried with stock laptop drives and they don't seem to be reliable. I think it's a vibration issue.
How to unlock the drive and keep it unlocked:
http://www.avic411.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=728
and will the free tool just unlock my drive and keep it unlocked ??? or do i have to DL a file to make it unlock at all times ???
No one knows what the free tool will do, no one has used it cause it wipes out the stock drive and no one has wanted to try that. No file, but the instructions are above.
and how can i backup the drive just rip the folder on my pc then copy to my HD ???

It's possible, I used Ghost, or you can use Acronis. If there is nothing on the drive now, there is nothing to backup. If you had a new one, there are 4 partitions on the drive... well read above it's all there.
ducatiboy can you PM ur number so i can just get some info from you
Thanks Vlad
No, sorry. I can help you as much on line, but some people had abused the phone number I had given out early on so I made the decision I wouldn't do that anymore. While it's online, it's on my time frame and on my terms as much as I want. A couple calls while I was in bed or working and at dinner just killed my enthusiasm for giving out my phone number. Not saying you would do that, but they said they wouldn't either. Sorry.